CHAPTER 1
Introduction
Lesbian discipline occurs in various
contexts. It may simply involve a severe
young woman punishing her pretty, young roommate or girlfriend upon some
pretext as a form of erotic foreplay. Or
it may involve a schoolteacher disciplining an attractive young pupil for the
teacher's sexual gratification. The
object of lesbian discipline may be male as well as female. A dominant lesbian may discipline an
adolescent male under her control by spanking him and compelling him to submit
to her bizarre sexual commands. Or a
dominant lesbian may require an adult male to serve as her sex slave, requiring
him to play a completely passive role and even compelling him to wear feminine
clothing.
The growing importance of lesbian discipline as an
appropriate subject for psychosexual study should not be underestimated. In the past several years, a number of
developments have contributed to the emergence of lesbian discipline as an
increasingly important factor in sexual relationships. These developments include (1) a changing
public attitude towards lesbianism, (2) a changing outlook by lesbians
themselves including a growing willingness to publicly acknowledge their sexual
preferences, (3) the development of the Gay Liberation Movement, particularly
in the nation's universities, and (4) the rapidly developing Women's Liberation
Movement, particularly its younger members who openly proclaim: 'men are the
enemy'!
When all these developments and crosscurrents are taken
into account and evaluated, it can be seen why lesbian discipline is
continually growing in importance. In
the first place there are many more practising lesbians than in previous years,
primarily because the young woman of today is both better informed and less inhibited
than in previous years. In the past,
lesbianism was considered a curse and women often did their best to suppress
any lesbian tendencies they suspected in themselves. The young woman of today, however, is more
likely to regard lesbianism as simply a form of sexual preference. If not a practising lesbian, she may
nonetheless have girlfriends who are admitted lesbians. Under these circumstances, young women with
lesbian tendencies are quite likely to permit such tendencies to be expressed
in one manner or another.
Thus, young women with a submissive nature may find
themselves under the control of their more dominant girlfriends, and those with
dominant tendencies are likely to search for partners to dominate. For the most part, dominant lesbians confine
their relationships to other women.
However, others develop relationships with submissive men. Quite often these relationships are purely
temporary and experimental in nature, although some dominant lesbians marry
their male subjects. In such situations
it goes without saying that the sexual relationship between the parties is
usually somewhat unusual and may in fact be nearly the opposite of the
conventional male-female relationship.
In this book we intend to review the entire range of
lesbian disciplinary practices. We will
begin with a review of lesbian discipline as practised in the modern home, in
schools, and among young career women sharing
apartments. We will then examine the
role of the dominant female in her relationships with both males and
females. Finally, we will review the
disciplinary practices of the various lesbian-orientated clubs that have
emerged in recent years.
At the outset, some initial observations about the
relationship between lesbianism and sadomasochism might be in order. Despite the modern trend towards more liberal
attitudes, a large residue of Victorian morality remains in our culture. Thus many young women who experience lesbian
tendencies do their utmost to suppress them.
Some, in fact, are so successful in repressing such tendencies that they
are even unaware of them and would in many cases be
both surprised and shocked to be informed that they are unconsciously lesbians.
Suppressed drives and tendencies, however, must find some
form of expression. Depending on the
degree of suppression and other factors, the form of expression that emerges
may effectively disguise the original drive or tendency. Thus, a woman who is unconsciously lesbian, will nevertheless express her suppressed tendencies
in one manner or another. One of the
more common forms of such expression is feminine domination. That is not to say all dominant females have
unconscious lesbian tendencies, but it does mean that many women, so inclined,
are dominant females. Indeed, feminine
domination is in some respects an ideal solution for the problems of
unconscious lesbianism. In other words,
feminine domination permits a woman a form of sexual enjoyment and involvement
that does not violate her conscious scruples against an outright lesbian relationship.
A couple of brief examples might make the point more
obvious. Suppose for example a dominant
female teacher disciplines a pretty, teenage pupil by spanking and - to shame
her - requires her to perform cunnilingus for her. In such a situation, the teacher acquires
sexual gratification in a lesbian manner, but under circumstances that enable
her to rationalise to herself that she is not in fact a lesbian since she can
persuade herself that she was only punishing the girl. In this connection, it might be pointed out
that the number of females in authority who employ cunnilingus as a shaming
device is quite astonishing.
A further example can be seen in the case of a dominant
female who has a submissive male under her control. There are, of course, many
forms of domination that may be employed in such a situation - mental, bondage,
corporal punishment, petticoat punishment, sexual humiliation and other
humiliations. The form of acts
employed by a dominant female will often reveal the extent of her unconscious
lesbian tendencies.
A woman who is unconsciously lesbian will make a strong
effort to feminise her victim - compelling him to dress in women's clothing,
making him perform cunnilingus for her, and perhaps even making him submit to
'intercourse' with a dildo, or similar object.
Thus she can indulge in activities of a basically
lesbian nature while rationalising to herself that she is not a lesbian since
her partner or victim is a male. In
addition, having a masculine victim has the secondary benefit of permitting her
to gratify her conscious (or unconscious) hostilities towards the male. Here again, it should be emphasised that not
all dominant females are unconsciously lesbian, and petticoat punishment and
other forms of feminisation may be employed only because they happen to be
extremely effective with the particular victim involved.
Thus, feminine domination can be one form of expression
of unconscious lesbian tendencies.
Another is feminine submission.
Let us suppose, for example, that a young woman of a generally
submissive nature has unconscious, but quite strong, lesbian tendencies. For her, lesbian masochism provides an ideal
solution for her dilemma. Spanked and
threatened with further severe punishment from a dominant female, she can
permit herself to perform lesbian acts she would not otherwise bring herself to
do while at the same time rationalising to herself that she is being forced to
submit. The rationalisation that she has
been coerced into performing such acts enables her to avoid the guilt feelings
she might otherwise find quite overwhelming.
It can therefore be seen that lesbian discipline plays a
vital and often essential role in a variety of relationships. Lesbian discipline is always erotic
discipline, although there are numerous situations where the participants may
not be aware of the implications of their actions. In this chapter we will examine some case
histories intended to give the reader a general introduction
to the subject of lesbian discipline.
The first involves a typical relationship between an older lesbian and
her young roommate. The second involves
a dominant female and her relationships with submissive members of both
sexes. The third involves an extremely
beautiful young woman who dominates her girlfriends completely.
Case History No 1
Rita T is an attractive young woman of twenty who works
as a secretary for a large insurance firm having its principal headquarters in
San Francisco. Rita, a shapely,
eye-catching brunette of medium height, has many offers
for dates, but routinely turns them down for reasons that will become clear
later. She grew up in a small town in
the Pacific Northwest, and moved to San Francisco after finishing high school.
For the past year, Rita has shared an apartment with Kathy
L, a thirty-two year old assistant manager of a fabrics store. A strikingly tall brunette,
Kathy is attractive, but in quite a severe manner. She always dresses
conservatively, wears little make-up, and usually wears her hair in a severe
bun at the nape of her neck. An
intelligent and extremely aggressive woman, Kathy dominates her younger roommate
completely. Over the past few years, she
has had a succession of younger roommates, all of whom have been under her
domination completely.
In the following report, Rita describes her home
background and her relationship with Kathy:
I grew up being used to discipline. In our home, my mother always enforced her
rules with the back of a hairbrush. I
had two sisters, one younger, one older, and all three of us could expect to be
spanked whenever our mother thought it necessary, right up to the time we were
well developed and in high school. Our
mother believed in frequent, but not overly hard spankings, which meant that
all three of us got it at least once a week, although there were times when we
had it two, or even three times a week. For certain offences, our mother employed group punishment -
spanking all three of us, even though only one of us had done wrong.
When something came up, our mother would make the culprit
bring her the solid wooden hairbrush that was always kept on her vanity
table. As humiliating
as it was to fetch the hairbrush when we were quite grown-up, we never stalled
because we knew only too well this would mean longer and harder punishment. The spankings were always administered on the
spot where she happened to be. She would
pull up a chair and sit down, and, smacking the brush lightly against her open
palm, would tell you to get ready.
In her opinion, a spanking had to be administered on the
bare bottom to be effective, and there was simply no point in trying to
argue. Even though it was only a family
affair, we always found it thoroughly embarrassing to bare our backsides,
particularly when we were well-grown young ladies
wearing fashionable clothes. I can well
remember how my sisters blushed when they had to gather their skirts up around
their waists, and pull down their panties; and I know I always blushed as much
as they did.
With our skirts up and panties down, we had to stretch
out over our mother's lap with our bare bottoms sticking up higher than the
rest of our bodies. When we were in just
the right position to suit her, she would pause a few moments to scold us and
make sure we understood why we were being spanked. Despite our embarrassment, none of us could
keep from squirming and puckering shamefully when we lay there with our bare
bottoms anxiously awaiting the brush.
Finally, the spanking would begin. Although our mother didn't believe in
spanking too severely, each blow of that hard-backed hairbrush would sting
furiously when it landed on our plump, bare bottoms. And she would spread the spanks around,
covering both cheeks and concentrating on the tender, lower parts. As our backsides turned pink and glowed warmly,
each fresh spank stung all the more and it wasn't long
before we were crying and kicking our legs wildly back and forth. And despite all our tears and good promises,
no spanking came to a halt until our bottoms were fire-red and we were
thrashing about frantically on her lap.
For the group-punishment sessions, the procedure was
different. She would delegate one of us
to get the hairbrush, then the three of us would line
up along one side of the dining-room table.
After hoisting our skirts and lowering our panties, we had to bend
forward over the table with our bare bottoms jutting out behind. She would then walk up and down behind us,
putting the brush to each of us. This could
go on for several minutes, and before she finished all three of us would be in
tears, with our backsides crimson.
In Mother's opinion, a girl simply didn't get too old to
be spanked. I can remember my older
sister still getting spankings even when she was over twenty and engaged to be
married. Her last spanking came only a
week before she was married and I can still recall it vividly. Despite her pleas to be spared, Mother made
her bring the hairbrush to her right in the living room in front of the rest of
the family. Blushing furiously and
blinking back the tears, my sister hoisted her navy-blue skirt and white slip
up, and pulled down her pantie girdle and stockings. Mother made her stretch out over her knees,
and then proceeded to give her bare bottom a good, long work-out
with the brush. My sister was sobbing
bitterly when Mother finally released her.
Despite the embarrassment and pain of those maternal
spankings, I must admit I always found them exciting. Lying on my bed afterwards, with my bottom
still glowing and prickling from the hair-brushing, I
could never resist playing with myself and would invariably have a quite
intense orgasm. Although it wasn't so exciting as being spanked, I found it stimulating to
watch my sisters being spanked. And
after watching one of those sessions, I would often retire to my room and
masturbate while imagining myself on the receiving end of the spanking. I might add that I don't think the rest of
the family ever realised how these spanking sessions affected me, although
there were times when I couldn't see how Mother could help notice.
When I moved to San Francisco to take a job after
finishing high school, I just assumed I'd had my last beating. This was several months before I met
Kathy. She bore a close resemblance to
my mother in both appearance and personality, and I found myself strongly
attracted to her right from the beginning.
The first time we went out to dinner, I made a point of telling her how
much I thought she resembled my mother, and also let
her know in detail how strict she had been.
She seemed pleased and, to my surprise, asked me if I would like to
share her apartment, adding, with a knowing smile, that a young lady like myself probably needed some supervision. I quickly accepted, although I must admit I
was a little frightened of her.
As soon as I moved in with her, Kathy began
bossing me around and kept making remarks like: 'I'll turn you over my knee if
you don't do what I say!' and so on.
Naturally I couldn't help blushing vividly on such occasions and could
never manage to look her in the eye.
After I had been there about a week, I finally got my first spanking
from her. I deliberately provoked the
incident by not doing several chores she had assigned me. When she saw I had deliberately disobeyed,
she grabbed me by the arm and started marching, remarking: 'it's about time I
gave you a real good spanking!'
In the bedroom she seated herself on the side of the bed
and demanded I roll my dress and slip up tightly to the waist. To my exquisite humiliation, the spot in my
panties was quite visible as I stood there in front of her with my skirts
rolled up. Blushing and keeping my eyes
averted, I swallowed hard and felt my knees growing weak as she very slowly
rolled my panties down, finally letting them slide to my ankles. Leaving my garter belt and stockings in
place, she patted her knee as a signal for me to get into position.
I lowered myself over her lap, feeling my moist hairs
brushing against her nylons. She pulled
my skirts back well out of the way, clasped her left hand across the small of
my back, and promptly started smacking my bare bottom with her other hand. It stung nicely right from the start and I
soon found myself squirming shamefully on her lap. She smacked my bottom all over with crisp,
ringing smacks, which soon had me burning smartly and kicking my nylon-clad
legs in the air. It wasn't long before I
was in tears and jerking my hips back and forth. I had never been so worked up in my life, and
her stockings were soon soaked with my fluids.
Finally, to my great embarrassment, I climaxed right on her lap.
She realized what had happened and quickly stopped. Afterward she held me close while I had a
good cry on her shoulder. She began
kissing me, lightly at first on both lips and my face, then
gradually began kissing me harder. To my
surprise I soon found myself responding.
A long petting session followed during which she allowed her tongue to
slip into my mouth on several occasions.
Although at first I found the idea of French kissing with another girl
deeply shocking, I couldn't bring myself to pull away from her, and finally
began responding with my own tongue.
With our tongues plunged deeply into each other's mouths, it wasn't long
before I reached another climax.
After this, the spankings and petting sessions became
almost a nightly ritual. As we became
more involved, we began disrobing completely before the spanking session, and
Kathy would frequently make me undress her.
Although she usually dresses in a manner that conceals it, she has a
lovely figure and I could never keep from staring at those full, pink breasts
and that heavy growth of dark brown hair between her legs. After the spanking had set me on fire, we
would stretch out on the bed together and explore each other's body with our hands
and tongues. She would tell me things to
do for her, and I could never bring myself to disobey. Finally one evening, when she had me
thoroughly aroused, she drew her knees back and spread her legs apart. 'Go ahead, Rita, I want you to lick me all
over down there!' she said quietly.
Although there had been a time in my life when I had
thought I couldn't possibly do such a thing for another girl, I found her
impossible to resist. Blushing
furiously, I knelt down between her long legs and stared at the coral groove
that was almost hidden by the thick undergrowth of brown hair. Slipping my hands under her hips to elevate
them slightly, I gradually lowered my face until my cheeks were brushing
against her hairs. She was already quite
moist and I could feel her pelvic muscles working back and forth. She drew one leg back and draped it over my
shoulder while at the same time using her hands to press my face gently but
firmly down against her damp nest.
As soon as I felt my lips pressing against her vulva, I
stuck out my tongue and began working it around. She gasped loudly and began working her hips
back and forth. I quickly lost all my
inhibitions and started licking her all over, working up and down the full
length of her split. She began secreting
quite heavily, soaking my face and forcing me to swallow her honey. I worked my fingers between the outer lips of
her cunny, pulling them apart with a pretty squish and plunging my tongue
deeply into her. She uttered a
pronounced gasp and began jerking her hips frantically back and forth again,
holding my head down against her with both hands. Sucking heavily on her fluids I worked my
tongue around her clitoris and felt her jerk convulsively in response. She suddenly reached an intense climax,
mashing my face against her wet charms until it was over.
Since that time, I have been her sex slave in every way,
and that's the way both of us want it. She spanks me soundly for the slightest
reason, then makes me perform cunnilingus for
her. Afterward, she will use either a
dildo or her hands to bring me to a climax.
Although she dominates me completely, she is really quite nice about it
and seems to understand exactly what I need better than I do myself."